A friend asked me today on email how my Advent was going. I may have remarked it was still tightly sealed with the rest of the decor in the garage.
My lack of decorating thus far allows me to ignore the fact that I would like to be preparing my heart.
I reflected to her what I’ve been thinking of lately: that all the (now! Even more!) effort to make a sparkly Christmas for my kids sometimes tragically results in a generally annoyed, overexhausted mom. (Remember the sand art brownies debacle?)
My friend graciously responded in kind–something about how a twinkly, meaningful Advent sometimes dissolves into, “Hurry up! Get in here so we can read our Advent story and prepare our hearts quickly for the coming of Lord Jesus before I hurry you into bed so I can grumpily do the dishes!”
(I had no idea other moms were saying this, too.)
Maybe I should finish it off with a Grinchy “My heart’s an empty HO-OLE!” Come to think of it, maybe I am the Roast Beast?
Shauna Niequist puts it this way in Present over Perfect: “To put it plainly, my desire for beautiful, sparkly Christmas moments was edging out my ability to live well in my own actual life.”
Struggling with Christmas expectations? An (un-)blessing for youSo I’m wondering what I should possibly say no to this Christmas.
I wonder if less tinsel and hoopla and we-should could lead to the kind of Christmas I actually want my kids to remember: A mom whose smile is genuinely wide rather than stretched. A mom listening to Jesus rather than cramming him in. A heart preparing him room even more than I prepare all those teacher gifts.
It’s advent. Want to decorate inside with me?
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